"You're Not Listening To Her Make sure to listen to her every word, especially when it comes to sex. She knows best what she likes most. Listen to her."

"Skipping The Foreplay Getting it on should be structured like a good workout: warm up, action, cool down. Don't ever skimp on the warm up. "

"Thanking Her After Look, she didn't do you a special service. You didn't pay her for the night, so don't act like you need to thank her (unless of course, she really went out of her way for you)."

"Get Out Of The Bedroom Good sex shouldn't always rely on taking place on a bed. Switch things up, incite some excitement outside of the bedroom."

"Never Experimenting Keep things exciting for both you and your partner by trying something new. Make sure to talk her through it first."

"Not Taking Cues From Her Sex is all about communication. If you communicate, you're in for a really fun night. If you don't take her cues and act all oblivious, she's going to end up hating you."

"Never Going Down On Her Look. Making out all the time is great and all. But you've got to switch it up. Try something different. Go wild. Go south."

"Being Too Predictable Nothing will bore her more than trying out the same moves over and over again. As soon as things get a little too dull and predictable, she's going to start resenting you for it. PrevNext " ,

"Only Thinking With Your D*ck It's true that it mind seem like it has a mind of its own, but you're not %100 dick. There's a lot more to you than that and that's something you should prove to her."

"Referring To Your "Woody Johnson" Don't give it names for God's sake. This is the real deal. You're going to lose her respect, and she won't take you seriously in bed. And you don't want that."

"Trying To Be A Comedian A good sense of humor can certainly be a big turn on for many women out there. But trying out your newest stand-up routine before getting it on is a big mistake."

"Too Much Small Talk Don't make her fall asleep with your incessant small talk instead of moving things along in the bedroom. It's time to stop messing around. Small talk is not the same as foreplay" ,-.

"Answering Your Phone Under no circumstances (even if it's your mom) should you pick up your phone in the bedroom, when things get heated up. Turn it off, put it on mute. "

"Leaving Your Socks On Take 'em off. No excuses. It's really going to take away from the moment."

Going From Behind Without Talking To Her It's extremely important to discuss things with her before you decide to switch it up and try anal. You absolutely need her to sign off on it and be into it as well. At the end of the day, treat others like you want to be treated.

"Being Too Rough Or Not Rough Enough It's a delicate balance -- if you get way too into it and scare her with something she might not agree to, things won't end well. But if you decide to take things way down and seem distant, that's not going to work out either. Don'…

"Take Care Of Yourself This one should be plenty obvious. Personal hygiene is key and we're not only talking about brushing your teeth before going to bed. It's a huge turnoff, so get cleaned up and get it on without any weird smells."

"Replacing Yourself With Toys Sex toys have been shown to make things a whole lot more exciting in the bedroom. But please don't use them in a way that takes too much away from your physical and intimate connection with her. Don't get them out right away, it's not going …

"Shut Up About Your Dreams It's wise to just keep your weird dreams to yourself. She's not going to care if you guys only just started dating. It's not going to make you sound wise or insightful."

"Immediately Falling Asleep Look, we know things in the bedroom can get exhausting. But the least you can do is be there for her after the act. There's even scientific evidence that

"Daddy Talk Chances are pretty high, she's just not going to feel you referring to her as your child. Keep the daddy talk as far away from the bedroom as possible. Hell, don't ever consider it when talking to anybody."

The Butterfly Dr. Kat Van Kirk, sex expert for Adam & Eve says: She lays on her back with her hips off the bed. Her legs can either be wrapped around his hips, her feet can be flat on the floor or she can have her knees bent up to her breasts. This position allows for her to

The Lover Nick Hawk, star of Showtime’s reality show Gigolos says: With “The Lover,” the man sits at the end of the bed and the woman straddles him. Both of these allow deep penetration and extra skin-to-skin

"The Sitting V Have her sit on table or counter with enough room for her to lean back, and with her butt slightly hanging off the edge. Support her back with your hands, and then have her place one leg on your shoulder, and then the other. Have her grab behind your shoulders for ext…

"Bridge And Tunnel This is a complicated sex position that shouldn't be attempted by the inexperienced. That being said, for a couple who are really in sync, it's a great option for trying something new and burning a few

"Pile Driver This one is this one is no walk in the park for the man either. It’s an intense position by any stretch of the imagination, and one you’re not likely to be able to sustain for long. To get into this one, have her lie on her back, then lift her legs up slowly from her

"Criss Cross Sex expert Lindsay Tigar says: This is one of the less standard positions, but great to have in your arsenal. What this position does, essentially, is make your penis feel twice as big as it actually is, and all she has to do is cross her legs. You in? Figured as much. …

"Woman On Table Sex For truly intense thrusting and sex that involves a lot of power, having your feet firmly planted on the ground is a great way to go. Have your partner lie flat on the table (this also works with any roughly waist-high platform) and have her butt pushed

"Standing From Behind Another public sex favorite that can work for anal, this position is relatively simple; both of you are standing, and you enter her from behind. She can be completely upright, in which case you'll want either a wall, or a tree, or a similarly vertical

Against A Wall This is a staple of movie sex scenes — two characters passionately embrace for the first time and, too lustful to make it to the nearest bed, simply get it on against the nearest wall. Like its wall-less equivalent, it's taxing on your upper-body

Elevated Cunnilingus A table, a windowsill, a countertop, whatever the case, having your partner up above means that you can go down on her… without going down too much. Have her bring her legs right up to the edge of

"Sideways 69ing Another fun option for the 69 is to simply turn it on its side. While sideways 69ing requires a bit more effort than the upright version, it's a great option if lying on top of each other is tricky for whatever reason, and offers a fun new spin — literally — on a

"The 69 The classic mutual pleasure oral position, 69-ing is a thrill for the head-to-toe positioning. It also works for any combination of two sex partners. If you're lying one on top of the other, typically woman on top is easier, with each of your pleasuring the other orally.…

"Zen Sex Some people want lustful, intense, passionate sex... and some people want more relaxed sex. If you're in the mood for something a little more zen, try this position. In order to pull it off, your partner should put her legs into a full lotus position and lean forward on…

"The Waterfall The Waterfall is one of the strangest-looking sex positions out there, but once you try it you’ll understand why it’s worth it. Sex expert Dr. Emily Morse says: The Waterfall is a variation on the popular Cowgirl position, but packs a super-sized climactic punch. Star…

"The Backseat Special The backseat is a favorite sex spot because of it being the most convenient spot to have sex when you're typically surrounded by inconvenient places to have sex. So if you and your lover are driving down the highway and you're bored as sin, and get unde…

"Woman Lying On Top This position requires a lot of exertion on the woman’s part but could be very intense; it can also work as an anal sex position, and give her a lot of control in that scenario. It’s pretty self explanatory; you lie flat on your back hold her by the hips or butt,…

"Crouching Reverse Cowgirl The Reverse Cowgirl is usually done in something of a vertical T-position, with the man lying flat on his back and the woman bouncing up and down mostly upright. You can add a variation to this by having her lean forward, so that her head is actually almos…

"Reverse Cowgirl A classic, the reverse Cowgirl puts the man on the bottom and has the woman straddling him facing away. She can control the angle of penetration here, and the man gets a great view of her from behind. If

"Out-Of-Control Cowgirl Astroglide's resident sexologist Dr. Jess says: In this one, the man kneels and sits back on his heels, while the woman sits atop him, facing away, to maintain total control, since he can’t thrust with as

The Superhero Perhaps the ultimate strength test sex position, the "Superman" sees you bend her over a desk or table, with her using it for support. Then, once you're inside her, lift her pelvis up slowly until her feet are actually off the ground, and you're holding on…

"Chicken Wing Doggy-Style This is a pretty straightforward Doggy variation. Start in the typical Doggy-Style position and then lift her up by her thighs. Adult film actor and director Derrick Pierce says: Make sure your arm/hand is underneath her leg for support. For

Kneel Together This position is a great variation on regular Doggy-Style. In this edition, you enter her from behind as you would normally with Doggy-Style, only then both of you straighten your torsos straight up. This position means her hands are a load free-er

"Spooning Spooning is one of the “cuddliest” of the sex positions, but that doesn’t mean you can’t make it intense. You lie on your side, with your partner in front of you, facing away. Enter her from behind, and then both of you can control the pace and depth of thrusting. The posi…

"Backdoor Planking Sex expert Tyomi Morgan says: This position not only accesses the G-spot and the A-spot to create squirting orgasms but it's also comfortable for the female partner after switching into several positions. Backdoor planking is a position

"Reach For The Sky Doggy-Style is normally done kneeling, but it doesn’t have to be. An easy transition from normal Doggy-Style, in this version you actually get up on your feet and stand up, and lean way over her. You’ll get somewhat of a less intense thrust than regular Doggy-Styl…

"Doggy-Style Doggy-Style is one of the favorite sex positions of millions of people for a few reasons. It’s the classic female submissive position and really lets the man be in control, and there’s more than a few variations on it. In its simplest form, you kneel on the bed, with yo…

"The Pancake A more extreme variant of the Legs On Shoulders position, this one really puts you in the driver's seat. Start with your torso more or less vertical and her legs on your shoulders. Descend slowly until you're

"Legs On Shoulders A classic take on Missionary, this one can either be done with you lying down on top of her, or with her positioned at the edge of the bed and with you in standing (or more accurately leaning in) with her legs on your shoulders as you penetrate her. This position …

Coital Alignment Technique Start in regular Missionary, and then flatten your torso as much possible, while your partner should arch her legs and put her legs on your butt. What