Having a Threesome “This can be a woman's biggest fear when it comes to telling her partner because of the unknown result of said threesome,” says Riel. “There's always the possibility of jealousy on his part, or her own, when it comes to performing the act. She may
Spanking “If you’ve ever smacked a woman on the ass, and she went wild in a good way, there’s a really good chance she’d be willing to try more spankings,” says Lords. “Some are part of role play (think of a naughty schoolgirl being punished by her teacher) or just because it’s fun and …
Breath Play “Choking can be very sexy and can increase sexual arousal and blood flow to the clitoris,” says Engle. “Place a hand on her neck, applying pressure to the sides, not directly on the esophagus. Use a ‘tap’ system where she can tap you with her hand to say
Bondage “Bondage and BDSM have taken over a large part of the sex industry recently,” says Riel. “The curiosity for a lot of women has sparked, and there's more of an interest in trying kinkier sex acts than before. Some of this is surely thanks to the ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ book/mov…
"Domination and Submission “Some women want to be controlled by their partner, to submit; others want to be in control and dominate,” says Lords. Exploring domination and submission “can be done in a purely sexual way or as part of a relationship role,”
"Role Play “Many women often want to engage in role play with their partners but might feel nervous asking for exactly what they want,” says Engle. “No one wants to be judged or to freak their partner out, so she may keep [her desire for you] to pretend to be the OB/GYN and give her…
"Anal “Believe it or not, some women are actually genuinely interested in trying anal sex,” says Riel. “Although you would think their partner would jump at the chance, there is always the possibility that the idea grosses
Kinky Things Women Want to Do Let’s be clear: You should absolutely not assume that she is into any of the below just because you hope it’ll be the case. “Every woman is different, and the spectrum of possibly kinky fun is vast,
"“Every woman is different, and the spectrum of possibly kinky fun is vast,” says Lords. “But some fantasies are common among women (and people in general"
Let’s be clear: You should absolutely not assume that she is into any of the below just because you hope it’ll be the case
If you are curious in the moment, ask her if she'd want to talk about it before sex because there is always the possibility that you may be able to start right then and there,” says Riel. “But just remember the subject still may be uncomfortable for her. Maybe start by
Of course, discussing it more formally while you’re not having sex might be smarter, but there’s always the chance that the questions will come up in the heat of the moment. If that’s the case, remember that asking or
"How to Talk to Her About Her Kinky Desires So what do women want in bed? What do women want men to do in bed? To them, for them, with them? It starts with listening. Regardless of their specific personal desires, the No. 1 thing women want to hear in bed is,
"That being said, there are ways to screw such a conversation up. If you put too much pressure on her to respond in a certain way, or at all, she might feel attacked rather than supported"
“If you initiate the conversation, she'll be more likely to want to open to you about it,” adds Riel, noting that regardless of what she tells you, having a real and honest conversation on the subject can do wonders for a relationship. “Creating a safe place to talk about sex can mak…
"For starters, this means she doesn’t have to feel weird about bringing it up herself, as well as giving her an opportunity to have a discussion she might feel ready to have but not ready to start"
"The next time you're both relaxing and lying around after sex, ask her if there are any desires or fantasies she has never expressed to you,” says Riel. “It's that simple. Ask her"
"If you want to know how to be better in bed for her, you don’t start by drawing up a list of kinky things to do during sex. Instead, you start by asking her what she wants to do"
It starts with listening. Regardless of their specific personal desires, the No. 1 thing women want to hear in bed is, “What do you want