Plan dates According to Joann, an account executive, who's been married for 11 years and is a mother of two: "Every two weeks or so, set a date in which both of you have to get spiffed up and go on a romantic date. Whether you head out to a restaurant, a show or even a
sex will change Of course, there's no doubt that your sex life will change once you get married, but it doesn't have to become non-existent or worse yet, a chore. Marriage itself isn't easy, and as with every other element of it, if you want your sex life to remain a priority…
Try different sex And finally, Kevin, whose nine-year marriage almost came to an end, said; "Start experimenting with positions, orifices and tempos. Test out a bunch of sex moves and try something new every time you make love until you discover what works best for you."
Leave the bedroom Kiki, married for five years, said; "Vanilla sex is great, but vanilla sex outdoors is even greater. And if you're not the type to put your sex life out there, head to a bed and breakfast or even a seedy motel. A change of scenery will definitely provide an ele…
Use props Marco, married for 15 years and with four children, remarks; "Movies can put a few ideas in her head and add some enticement to your sex lives. Imagine hearing another woman moaning in the background as you penetrate your wife. There's no harm in trying. As well, head …
Be spontaneous Newlywed Sharon advises; "Although you don't necessarily have to have spontaneous sex with her all the time, kissing her passionately for no reason other than because she turns you on will definitely make her feel sexy. Touch her, hold her, kiss her, and above all…
Communicate Steve, father of three and married for 7 years said; "Discuss sex with your wife. Talk about what you like, what you desire, how you want to change your sex life, or what you love about it. Talk to her. Everyone has different sex drives; make sure that yours and hers are…
Plan dates According to Joann, an account executive, who's been married for 11 years and is a mother of two: "Every two weeks or so, set a date in which both of you have to get spiffed up and go on a romantic date. Whether you head out to a restaurant, a show or even a
Bodily habits Yes, everyone — even women — farts and burps, and the things that exit our bodies don't smell like roses either, and once you come face to face with these things, suddenly "sexy" isn't the first adjective you'd use to describe your partner. It's al…
"making changes So how can you ensure that your sex life will be as spicy hot as it was before you were married? Before I get into that, guys who won't have sex with their partners until marriage obviously won't know what kind of lovemaking they're going to end up with b…
"It's always there If you love chocolate and your house is packed with the stuff, you won't feel an aching desire to have it. But if you love chocolate and there was only one little piece left, suddenly that piece of chocolate becomes a hot commodity. This analogy can be app…
Letting go When people tend to get more comfortable in their relationships, say, 70 pounds more comfortable, and begin dressing like bums, chances are that sexual attraction may begin to lag. It's natural to get more comfortable in a relationship, but letting go of yourself is like q…
Bodily habits Yes, everyone — even women — farts and burps, and the things that exit our bodies don't smell like roses either, and once you come face to face with these things, suddenly "sexy" isn't the first adjective you'd use to describe your partner. It's al…
"In a world that's so chock-full of divorce, the question regarding the frequency of sex amid what should be marital bliss is definitely an important one. Men want to know how sex turns out after the wedding cake and whether or not there are warning signs beforehand. To start, y…
Housework She cleans, you cook. You have to buy groceries and she does the laundry. She changes the sheets, you take out the trash. All these everyday chores can sometimes get you down and rob you of your desire to be romantic. Who farted?
Bills Now that the baby and the new house are underway, here comes an influx of shiny new bills to pay. Ain't that great? I'm sure that makes you feel hot in your groin area. Right. So between working like an animal and giving up all your money to the man, chances are that a roll…
Baby When she's pregnant, she may not be in the mood or feel very sexy at all times. After the baby's born, she may not be in the mood or feel very sexy at all times. Of course, between the feedings, the late-night crying and the constant fussing, both of you might not be in the …
New house Chances are that, if you're tying the knot, you're going to have to live somewhere — together. And while her parents' basement sounds great since it's rent-free, it's not an ideal abode. And with a new house comes new work and new financial responsibilities.
"why does it change? The list can go on and on when it comes to why sex lives change after couples tie the knot. To begin, just the fact that you now live with this person will change even your own desire for the frequency of sex (it may go up or down depending on you). And although…