Calves Around Neck This position allows deep penetration, access to her G-spot, and eye contact, says James. “If you want to be a little more adventurous but not come off to strong, have her rests her calves on your shoulders, and if she’s extra flexible the
"Oral “This is the ultimate intimate connection,” says Garren James, founder of Cowboys4Angels, a high-end luxury male companion agency. “There is no better way to get your new lady friend excited, and
Doggy “Take a knee! Act like football practice and be on one knee instead of two. You'll have a better range of motion and better ability thrust deeper. This tweak is also more comfortable than kneeling on two knees with
Alternate Missionary “You can raise one of her legs or knees so that you're entering her at a better angle. Think of your body lying on a five-degree rotation from hers,” says Billy Procida,
"Missionary It's a safe and loving position that helps build trust. “It doesn't have to be boring. Placing a pillow underneath her butt can increase pleasure by changing the angle. Using your hands to touch different parts of her body can make the sex less genitally
Woman On Top “She has more control of the experience, which is helpful in a culture that tends to put much of the pressure to perform on men,” says Dellepiane. This is especially helpful if it's your first time and you don't know much about what they like. “She has the
Yab Yum This position involves sitting up straight looking at each other's eyes. “She straddles him wrapping her legs around him. I like this position because you both are giving and receiving. It creates instant connection
"Strong (But Careful) Start You shouldn't be too aggressive or presumptuous the first time you have sex with someone new. “You may want to avoid anal — unless she's directing you that way! Aside from missionary, a good position to try is her on top. This way she can feel lik…
"Eye Gazing & Touching “Looking into each other's eyes can create increased intimacy and connection and can be playful and sexy,” says Dellepiane. Plus, for more intimacy, try caressing. When we caress each other with
Try Breathing Together “When we are in sync with our breath it brings us into a trance state. Both partners will become connected to their bodies and their breath, and that brings
"We tend to be in our heads, creating stories about ourselves and our partner. Judging and criticizing is not sexy. When we overanalyze each other and ourselves, we lose excitement and pleasure. We can enjoy every moment if we just tune into our bodies, let go and have fun,” says Ta…
"Tanya Tate, an award winning performer and director says that even the professionals don’t try to go for all the bells and whistles the first time out of the gate. "Do porn stars show off on the first time they hook up for sex with someone? Personally I prefer more intimate p…
"The first time we have sex with a new partner can be incredibly exciting. There’s the exhilaration of the unknown, the delight of discovering the hidden sweet spots and distinct turn-ons and kinks. But it can also be
Sex is what you make of it. It can be a hardcore hour-long workout equivalent to running an Olympic marathon... or it can be thirty seconds of bliss that requires so little movement it straddles the line of sleeping inside of a person. Whichever route you go,
"No matter what positions you experiment with together, remember that communication is key, says Morse. “Every penis and every vagina is different, so what works for one couple might not be the best for another. Check in with one
Tread With Care Be sure to avoid positions like doggy style and wheelbarrow, or anything that involves her legs being in the air. “You do not NEED this type of access, and you run the risk of getting to excited and hurting her with your thrusts. Ouch!” says Morse"
"Spooning “Spooning is an optimal position for well-endowed men because it limits thrusting and gives you full control of penetration, allowing you to go as slow as necessary,” says Morse. It is also very intimate and will help you and your partner stay connected through the whole …
"Standing Missionary Sexy standing positions are often winners. “Stand upright facing one another, then the receptive partner lifts one leg to facilitate entry,” says Dr. Jess"
"She lies on her back with her knees bent and her feet spread apart flat on the mattress. He lies on his side at a right angle to her body (to form the top of the tee) and slides his body under the bridge of her bent legs. She presses her hips up slightly as he slides in from