So before you delve into a committed relationship, make sure that you have all ends covered and don't be afraid to discuss what you expect — both in and out of the bedroom.
Just like couples should discuss important issues like children, finances and the like, sex should be added to the list so that there's no confusion down the road. Of the many married women I know, a few have changed their MO when it comes to sexual behavior, but the majority have ke…
Ingrid, I thought, made some valid points. How can anyone agree to spend their lives with someone when they don't plan to make the effort to satisfy each other's needs mentally and physically?
Ingrid: It doesn't have to be that way. Why is it that you're in the mood to make love all the time while you're dating, but once that ring is on your finger, suddenly enjoying great sex and satisfying your man sexually doesn't make the list of "things to do"? S…
Lucy: Well, before my ex and I were married, we were making love at least four times a week — and I'm talking quality lovemaking. But once we were married, he suddenly had no time for me. I thought things would continue
Ingrid: Granted, there are guys out there who are just rotten, but for the most part, many guys who commit adultery do so because there's something amiss in the relationship. That's something to think about ladies.
Ingrid: Just like with anything in a relationship, you have to make time for lovemaking. You don't necessarily have to make appointments with each other, but just take the time to appreciate each other physically and mentally. If you do that, chances are your husbands will never stra…
Suzan: I agree with Jennifer, once a couple gets married, sex slows down.
Ingrid: It doesn't have to be that way. Why is it that you're in the mood to make love all the time while you're dating, but once that ring is on your finger, suddenly enjoying great sex and satisfying your man sexually doesn't make the list of "things to do"?
How many times a week do you plan to have sex when you're married? And for those of you who are married, how often do you have sex on average? Nancy: Well, I've been married to my husband for 27 years now and we have sex about twice a week. I'm lucky because my husband is a …
Ingrid: Oh my God, and then women wonder why their husbands commit adultery. Doesn't he get a say in how often you have sex? (referring to Jennifer) Or better yet, does he know that you think this way? Because believe me, he'll give the marriage a second thought.
Jennifer: I think that although we have sex often now, it will die down once we're married. So I would say about once every two weeks.
Nancy: Well, I've been married to my husband for 27 years now and we have sex about twice a week. I'm lucky because my husband is a very affectionate gentleman and we have such a strong connection and always encourage open communication.
Is there anything you wish your man would do to you sexually? Lucy: Well, when my ex and I were first dating, he was very dominant and would take me at will. But once we were married, I felt as though I was always initiating sex. I would long for him to come home, throw
Suzan: I wish he would talk dirty to me and say really nasty things about what he wants to do to me. We did it once and it really turned me on. I think I'll take your advice (pointing at Nancy) and discuss it tonight.
Nancy: Sweetie, why don't you try telling him? (referring to Jennifer) Just as you have no clue what he wants, he equally has no idea what you're into. It sounds like you had a pretty easy time telling him that you couldn't stand the rear-entry position, so why is it so diffi…
Jennifer: I wish my fianc would kiss my entire body from my head to my toes. I give him that encouraging moan whenever he starts kissing my body, but he just doesn't get it.
Ingrid: I have yet to meet a man who spends about 90 minutes teasing me with his hands and mouth before he penetrates me. Every boyfriend I've ever had doesn't take the time to appreciate my body. So I usually end up tying them up and doing whatever I want. But the
Lucy: Well, when my ex and I were first dating, he was very dominant and would take me at will. But once we were married, I felt as though I was always initiating sex. I would long for him to come home, throw me up against the