"Missionary It's a safe and loving position that helps build trust. “It doesn't have to be boring. Placing a pillow underneath her butt can increase pleasure by changing the angle. Using your hands to touch different parts of her body can make the sex less genitally
Woman On Top “She has more control of the experience, which is helpful in a culture that tends to put much of the pressure to perform on men,” says Dellepiane. This is especially helpful if it's your first time and you don't know much about what they like. “She has the
Yab Yum This position involves sitting up straight looking at each other's eyes. “She straddles him wrapping her legs around him. I like this position because you both are giving and receiving. It creates instant connection
"Strong (But Careful) Start You shouldn't be too aggressive or presumptuous the first time you have sex with someone new. “You may want to avoid anal — unless she's directing you that way! Aside from missionary, a good position to try is her on top. This way she can feel lik…
"Eye Gazing & Touching “Looking into each other's eyes can create increased intimacy and connection and can be playful and sexy,” says Dellepiane. Plus, for more intimacy, try caressing. When we caress each other with
Try Breathing Together “When we are in sync with our breath it brings us into a trance state. Both partners will become connected to their bodies and their breath, and that brings
"We tend to be in our heads, creating stories about ourselves and our partner. Judging and criticizing is not sexy. When we overanalyze each other and ourselves, we lose excitement and pleasure. We can enjoy every moment if we just tune into our bodies, let go and have fun,” says Ta…
"Tanya Tate, an award winning performer and director says that even the professionals don’t try to go for all the bells and whistles the first time out of the gate. "Do porn stars show off on the first time they hook up for sex with someone? Personally I prefer more intimate p…
"The first time we have sex with a new partner can be incredibly exciting. There’s the exhilaration of the unknown, the delight of discovering the hidden sweet spots and distinct turn-ons and kinks. But it can also be